How to Teach a Toddler Table Manners

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When we think about toddlers and table manners images of flying food and dropped peas race across our brains. Sauce smeared into the high char or table, bits and pieces of the meal all over the floor. At one stage we even had a drop sheet under Ariella’s high chair. At another time I decided meal times could only be outside because I was so exhausted from cleaning up the mess associated with the daily feed. So how can such a little messy munchkin start to learn table manners? Is it even possible?

 

Here are my Top 5 Tips for developing good table manners:

 1.Set the table and eat together as a family. For years I just gave Ariella her food at a small kiddy table and she ate while I cleaned up. This was great because it gave me a moment to get chores done but when we switched to setting the table and making a “thing” of dinner her table manners started developing beyond belief.

 2. Lead by example. Children don’t just listen with their ears, they learn by watching and taking in everything their parents and siblings do. Demonstrate how to hold a knife and fork properly right from an early age and your child will pick it up in no time. Show how to place a napkin, explain how the table is set and how to put the cutlery together when the meal is finished. These tiny little things help build the foundations for a solid set of table manners and remember if your little one does even the tiniest thing right praise, praise, praise!

 3. Make meal time a bonding experience that your toddler enjoys and looks forward to. Talk about lovely things they did that day, ask questions and be interested in the things that they are interested in. When toddlers are getting lots of attention they tend to do less attention-grabbing bad behaviours. It really helps mealtime go smoothly and sets the expectations that it is a special time for the family.

 4. Make up little rhymes to teach the basics, it helps kids remember them when they are young and when they are older it will already be ingrained in them. Spoon and knife are husband and wife, spoon and knife go on the right. Fork is best on the left. When I leave say may I please..

 5. Practice gratitude. Even if you are not religious starting the meal with a little thank you statement can really go a long way in teaching kids how to behave well. If gratitude is not a concept your child can grasp yet ask them before they start the meal something that they are happy for that day. Then over time slowly change and develop this into gratitude and thanks.

Remember, as with anything, developing table manner is a work in progress. Be patient, as your child will surely get it wrong way more times that they get it right in the beginning. Be heavy on the praise and hold back your frustrations when things go flying around the room. After all, this is a natural part of growing up right?

Starting Solids?


Most babies are ready around 6 months. Look for signs like sitting upright with support, showing interest in food, and a reduced tongue thrust reflex. Every baby develops at their own pace. Readiness matters more than age alone.

At 6 to 8 months food should be very soft and easily mashable between your fingers. Around 9 months babies can handle more texture and small soft pieces. If you are unsure, start softer and increase texture gradually as confidence grows.

Gagging is normal when babies are learning to manage texture. It is different from choking and is part of the learning process. Always supervise meals and offer appropriately sized soft foods. Most babies improve quickly with exposure and practice.

Not necessarily. Many meals can be adapted for baby with simple texture adjustments. You do not need to cook three different dinners. With a simple rhythm and small changes you can feed everyone from the same base meal.

Refilling your reusable yoghurt pouches is easy! Simply turn the reusable food pouch upside down and open the wide double ziplock at the bottom of the pouch. Once the zipper is open you can spoon yoghurt into the pouch or pour it in (out of a jug or bottle).

If you are concerned about making a mess you can use a kitchen funnel so that all of the yoghurt stays away from the yoghurt pouch zipper.

Another idea that we commonly do at home when filming videos (but it would also be useful when holding a baby in one arm), anyway.. the idea is that you put the pouch upside down in a glass (with the lid on), open the ziplock and the glass acts like a second hand, holding the pouch still whilst you spoon the yoghurt in. This is what I do when I only have one hand to use for the refill!I also tend to refill my reusable yoghurt pouches in bulk. I'll buy a good quality yoghurt from Coles or Woolworths and will fill a whole 10pk of pouches in one go so they are all ready for snacks on the go.

My kids always want to eat when they are out and refilling the reusable pouches one at a time just doesn't work for us. The only time i do that actually is when I've pureed a meal that my toddler refused, put it in a reusable pouch, and given it to her again. Oh and the other time I do singles.. there are two actually. When we go for ice-cream (it is so much cleaner when in a pouch), and when I have leftover smoothie (again, it stops me getting smoothie all through my car, pram, or playroom).

Little Mashies refillable yoghurt pouches are compatible with pouch filling machines that are on the market. Our spout is universal so even though we don't think you need a filling machine, our reusable pouches will fit. All of our yoghurt and baby food pouches come with anti-choke lids as standard.

Cleaning reusable baby food pouches is easy! We have designed Little Mashies refillable yoghurt pouches without corners so there are no places for food to get stuck (we would hate your little one to get sick from old food stuck in corners)!

When you open the ziplock you can see all the way through the pouch to ensure it is clean. If you have a dishwasher you can clean the pouch using that, otherwise you can wash your reusable baby food pouches by hand and this takes around 20 seconds. Little Mashies squeeze pouches are BPA Free and are safe to wash with warm water.

If you need some meal ideas for your refillable pouch you can find home made yoghurt here, baby food recipes here, and pouch smoothie recipes here.

Now, to clean your Little Mashies food pouches by hand simply open up the ziplock at the bottom and take off the cap. Run warm water through the open ziplock with the baby pouch facing downward so the water comes out of the spout and into the sink. The shape of Little Mashies reusable pouches acts like a funnel, pushing out food and making the pouch very easy to clean.

To start washing your reusable pouch, squirt some dishwashing liquid into the refillable pouch, then use a baby bottle brush to clean the inside walls (just like a baby bottle). To clean the spout use a straw brush (like the ones we have here), and clean it in the same manner that you would clean the teat from a baby’s bottle. Give the reusable pouch a rinse and place it over a kitchen utensil in the drying rack to dry. If you don’t have time to dry it fully place it in the freezer until you are ready to use it again. Do not put wet reusable food pouches in dark cupboards or draws. They are very easy to dry if you have removed the cap, and placed something inside the zipper to keep the pouch open (we use a whisk, tongs or a spatula).

Note that if you continuously wash your pouches in the dishwasher the high temperature will make the zipper wear out more quickly. At home we wash our pouches mostly by hand because it is so quick and easy and then just use the dishwasher when we have had loads of kids over and served reusable yoghurt pouches or smoothies to them all.

Oh and while I remember if you use the code RECIPE at the checkout it will remove 100% off the price of the baby food recipe ebook so you can get some inspiration for your refillable pouches.

Some parents start introducing a sippy cup or straw cup to their babies around 6 mths of age. This can make it easier to transition from breastmilk or bottle feeding around 12 mths of age. Most paediatricians recommend babies 18 mths or older use an open sippy cup rather than a bottle, so anytime before then is fine. This is why we have a 4 in 1 sippy cup, so that you don't have to purchase seperate products as your baby moves through the stages of learning how to swallow and drink. To shop the Little Mashies silicone sippy cup, check out our baby feeding range here.

All of our baby food recipes are contained within our ebook. You can get a free download by using the coupon code RECIPE at the checkout. Simply add it to the cart, pop in the coupon code, and it will remove 100% of the price.

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